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DIVORCE & RELATIONSHIP COACHING
Our approach
Whether you are still fighting for your marriage or struggling to navigate the divorce process, you are in control of more than you may believe. Our goal is to help you take back control of your life and find the joy and peace that you have been missing for so long. On the other side of the chaos, there is beauty. You just have to be willing to work for it. We are here to help you get through the pain and to help you rebuild what has been lost.
Relationship Coaching
Whether your relationship is on the brink of divorce or you simply want to move from surviving to thriving, relationship coaching will help you build skills to break the patterns that have left you feeling trapped in an endless cycle of conflict and heal from the pain the cycle has caused.
Divorce Coaching
Navigating the divorce process is overwhelming to say the least. Our coaching will help you build the emotional tools needed to successfully navigate the divorce process and give you the knowledge you need to move forward confidently.
Co-parenting Coaching
Co-parenting can be a source of endless stress, but it doesn’t have to be. Our coaching will help you shift your perspective and develop new habits that will create a co-parenting relationship that will benefit not only you, but most importantly your children.
Benefits of Coaching
Divorce Coaching
The average cost of divorce in California is $17,500 if no children are involved and $26,000 for cases involving custody. It is not uncommon for the cost to exceed six figures. It also comes at a great emotional cost. Divorcing the “normal” way often takes years and stalls the healing process. It keeps you trapped in the pain of the past and if you have kids, it keeps them in the cycle as well. The only winners of a court battle are the attorneys, while you family walks away emotionally and financially drained.
Divorce coaching allows you to begin the healing process now so that you you can take control of your divorce and not waste financial resources fighting emotional battles in court. When you approach the process from a calm state of mind, you are more likely to be able to negotiate an agreement that works best for your family rather than leaving the decision up to a court that knows nothing about your family or the real life logistics of a first responder divorce.
Divorce coaching helps you break the cultural norm that divorces have to be ugly battles fought by “bull dog” attorneys. Divorcing with dignity is possible even if you and your spouse currently cannot be in the same room. Divorce coaching will help you shift your perspective and build tohe tools necessary to do just that. Although you may not have been able to “fix” your marriage, you can now begin to learn new skills moving forward without having to relive or solve all the issues from the marriage.
Co-parenting Coaching
Learning to co-parent is no easy task. Emotions are high, communication is often at an all-time low and you are trying to co-parent while trying to heal. The good news is that it doesn’t have to stay this way. You can change the way you co-parent even if you are dealing with a high conflict parent on the other side. With coaching you will learn how to navigate your emotions and learn new skills so that you can show up as the best parent possible for your child.
Relationship Coaching
If you are still trying to fight for your relationship or maybe just unsure what your next step is, we can help you navigate this difficult time. You will learn skills that will allow you to see your situation more clearly so that you can put your best foot forward no matter what decision you make.
Divorce coaching can save you time, money and your sanity. It allows you to regain control of your divorce and continue to put the best interests of your family at the forefront of your decision making.
Don’t leave the outcome of your case in the hands of a judge. Learn the skills you need to develop a co-parenting relationship that allows you and your co-parent to make decisions regarding your child.
JORDAN GUSTAFSON
Jordan Gustafson worked for nearly a decade as a family law attorney. During this time she saw the best and worst of divorce and co-parenting. After facing divorce herself, she saw there really was a better way to divorce. She began her own path of divorcing with dignity and now has the goal of sharing her professional and personal experience with others. Divorce will always be difficult, but it doesn’t have to be fueled by anger.